I am a 41 year old female and have never liked sex. Over the years, I have tried to pretend, for the sake of maintaning relationhips, that I liked sex. But, in general, most of my boyfriends have been unfaithful and left. I have never had any emotional or psychological problems that I know of. So, I don't know why I don't like sex? It just simply doesn't feel enjoyable. There is no pain but no pleasure, either. As I get older, I find it harder and harder to pretend I like sex so I'd rather not even try. When there is nothing apparent in the womans history, mentally or physically, why does this lack of sex drive or sensation happen?
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